Posts Tagged ‘worship’

How can I obtain khashyah of Allaah?

September 18, 2015

The following was translated from:

Question: (We ask that) Allaah bless you, our Shaikh.  The seventh question is: How can I truthfully obtain khashyah of Allaah, Mighty and Majestic is He?

Answer by Shaikh Ubaid al Jaabiree:

We advise you, O my young son, with several things:

(1) Reciting the Noble Quran a lot

(2) Doing many acts of worship: Preserving the acts of worship that Allaah has made obligatory and increasing in the extra (nawaafil) good deeds

Thirdly, mentioning the Name of Allaah – He is the Most High and Free from all deficiencies and defects – a lot by saying:

subhaanAllaah (this means that you declare that Allaah is Free from all deficiencies, faults, and defects)

laa illaaha illallaah

Allaahu akbar


(4) Sitting with the good people (Tayyibeen) wherever they gather in the masjids, at the times of the five prayers in congregation and at jumuah

Leaving off earning a living for the family and dependents is blameworthy

September 20, 2012

Translated from:

(by Shaikh Saalih Aalush-Shaikh)

أبو الدرداء ترك التجارة ولزم العبادة ، قال أهل العلم : الأفضل الجمع بين الأمرين مع الجهاد . الأفضل الجمع بين العبادة والتجارة ، يعني الكسب للنفس وللعيال مع الجهاد . قال الذهبي : وهكذا كانت حالة أكمل هذه الأمة أبو بكر الصديق t فإنه كان يزاول الكسب وكان عابدًا صديقًا وكان يجاهد في سبيل الله وهكذا كانت حالة عبد الرحمن بن عوف وهكذا كانت حالة ابن المبارك ، فقد كان عالمًا عابدًا مجاهدًا ، لكن لا يقوى على ذلك الكثيرون . فلهذا كُلٌّ يأخذ بما يناسبه ، لكن التفرغ للعبادة ، أو التفرغ للمجاهدة وترك الكسب للأهل وللعيال مذموم . نأخذ من هذا أن ما قد يفعله بعض الناس من أنهم يتركون أهليهم مدة طويلة قد تبلغ أربعين يومًا وقد تبلغ أحيانًا أربعة أشهر ونحو ذلك ، ويتركون أهليهم ويتركون أولادهم دون كسب ودون رعاية ، أن هذا مخالف لما كان عليه السلف الصالح رضوان الله عليهم ،

Abu Dardaa left business and stuck to worship. And the people of knowledge say the best thing is to combine between the two along with jihaad.  It is best to bring together worship and business – meaning – earning a living for oneself and one’s dependents along with jihad.  Adh-Dhahabee said: And this was the state of the most perfect of this Ummah – Abu Bakr as Siddeeq.  He engaged in earning money and he was also a truthful worshipper and he fought in the path of Allah.  This was the case of Abdur Rahman ibn  Auf and likewise the case of  Ibn al Mubaarak who was a scholar, worshiper, and mujaahid.  But most people aren’t able to do that.  So everyone takes what is appropriate for him.

But worshiping full-time or being a Mujaahid full-time and leaving off earning a living for the family and dependents is blameworthy. We take from this that what some people do – leaving their families for a long period of time which may reach 40 days or sometimes reaches a period of four months and similar to that, leaving their families and children without earning a living and without taking care of them – this opposes what the Salafus Saalih (Righteous Predecessors) were upon – Allah be pleased with them